On Disappointment: The way a dream usually works is that you imagine a future with the particular outcome you desire. What happens when that dream doesn’t come true? Suddenly, you are living in a present that you never imagined. It’s a little bit jarring; you didn’t plan for this, and so you find yourself in […]
On Disappointment, Expectations, and the Insistence of New Read More »
I have one primary lens that I use to see the world, and it’s rose-tinted. There’s a pattern I’m noticing, however: if you only see the world as good, it means you are not able to improve it. Because it’s a lie to assume that all is right in the world. It’s good to be
The Problem with Contentment + Reflecting on Grief Read More »
I had a pretty great year! This year, I had a million reasons to judge God faithful. I looked back at my journey, and I saw Him fulfil every promise He had made. It wasn’t without its fair share of difficulties, but they all paled in comparison to the goodness of God. How was your
2025: The Year That Was All It Was Meant to Be Read More »
“I want a divorce.” Not this again, Michael groaned internally. He spoke softly, almost whispering, so his frustration wouldn’t show. “Baby, we have been over this. We’re not getting a divorce.” Sarah burst into tears, and Michael groaned again. He dropped the copy of The Economist he had been trying to read. Trying because the
What If I Told You That… Read More »
It is a Saturday, and I’m sitting in a home fellowship. We just wrapped up prayers, and we were in the sharing session when my phone dinged with an incoming email. I’ve been expecting the email for weeks, so I quickly navigate to my inbox, but I do not open it up just yet. A
How to Not Take Rejection Personally Read More »
Are you a good friend? You know that thing where you only learn about someone after a major public news event? That’s how I met Sam Bankman-Fried. He was once the 41st-richest American, but today he is serving a 25-year term in prison for financial fraud. I’ll leave you to do your own research if
Is Loyalty the Enemy of Truth? Read More »
I do not recognise myself from ten years ago. It’s the craziest thing, I am staring at myself in my secondary school’s yearbook and I do not know who the girl with the wide smile and chubby cheeks is. I begin to wonder if I ever knew her, she writes in her profile about loving
Time and Perspective Read More »
How to survive as a rule follower. Let me begin by confessing. The subtitle isn’t completely true because I haven’t figured out how to survive as a rule follower. It would have been more appropriate if I had phrased it as a question. If this world belongs to the disruptors, how can you survive as
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I remember a vivid memory from when I was 10 years old. My best friend at the time, who was also 10, cooked her first meal. It’s a vivid memory for me because growing up as a young girl, I felt there was an unspoken rule that said I had to learn to start cooking
Shades of Womanhood Read More »
Pregnant with her third child after having a boy and a girl, my mum had hopes that the child would be a boy. In fact, minutes after giving birth, she was still convinced it might have been a boy because in her words “she had no hair.” Alas, the ‘not a boy’ was me. I
